Dreary feelings like confusion, frustration, tension, and sadness are some of the feelings we experience when we are out of balance. Love is an essential part of life, especially on Valentine’s Day. Life without love is like a tree without blossom and fruit, wrote Khalil Gibran.

    Finding the one big love has always been an uphill battle. Think of this: there are approximately three billion men and women on the planet. Eliminating the old, the young and the already committed, this still leaves a substantial potential pool of perfectly precious people.

    Love is the most beautiful feeling. It thrills the heart including other organs. So, do not bite your nails worrying, with the appropriate behavior, here are some tips on how to find love before Valentine’s Day.
Be fresh. Be clean and neat, inside and out. The feeling of cleanliness makes you comfortable to huddle up or to get close with anyone.

    Do not put your image down. The first ingredient to dating success is self-confidence. In short, if you cannot convince yourself that you are such a charming, and appealing person, how can you convince others? Get rid of negative subconscious messages inside of you. Forget thoughts like “I am fat,” “I stammer,” or “I am short in height.” However, do not over do it, you might end up conceited or arrogant. Just be kind to yourself.

    Be interesting and interested. You may not be very interested in computer games and you may want to hear more tips on cross-stitching, however, if you are open to the potentials in someone else’s world, you can find new and interesting surprises. Ask questions—this is the best cure for the anxiety of wondering what to talk about--or you can prepare a few in advance. Likewise, be a good listener. A great conversation is a good blend of talking and listening.

    Make first contact short. Lunch date is brilliant. If it ends great, it means both of you want more. If it ends otherwise, the next thing to do is to wave goodbye. Remember, dating is gaining experience. Dating is a gracious activity.

    Be yourself. Most people try to be someone else—usually a smarter, more likeable, more compelling version of themselves. Do not impart your darkest secrets or provide a detailed list of your worst fears. Be yourself means being you, without fretting about your perfection percentage. Things that make a first date truly memorable are the mental more than the physical connections.

    Breathe. Relax. Do feel desperate if your date is not a contender for the Big Time. Appreciate the fact that your date took the time to meet you. If your date is not interesting enough, then it is time to move on.

    When will love come? Some find love late. Some find love soon. Some find love with the rose in May and some with the nightingale in June, wrote Pakenham Beatty.

    Dating is the look-see encounter. If the person wins your heart, or vice-versa, then your Valentine's Day will be special. If not, look back at the experience with appreciation and respect. For some love sings, for some love sighs, for some love's lips are dumb, added Pakenham Beatty.

    忧郁的感觉比如困惑、受挫、紧张和伤心，这些感觉是我们失去平衡时所经历的。爱情是人生中必不可以的一部分，特别是在情人节那天。Khalil Gibran 曾经有一句名言：如果人生没有爱情，就好像一颗没有花朵和果实的树一样。

    找到一个让自己深爱人，就好像一场艰难的战斗。考虑到这个因素：世上大约有30亿男人和女人，除了那些老年、年轻人和已经结婚了的人，仍然有相当多的人处在黄金时期。

    爱是一种最美好的感觉，它可以让心脏和人体上的其他组织感到兴奋。所以，你不要担心得嘴手指甲，而是采取适当的行动，下面有一些关于如何在情人节前找到爱人的提示。

    保持精神。体里体外保持清洁和穿着整齐。清洁的感觉可以让你舒服地缩成一团，和接近任何一个人。

    不要降低你的个人形象。约会成功的首要条件就是自信。总之，如果你对自己是一个如此有魅力和吸引人的人都没有信心，你又如何使别人相信你呢？去掉你心中消极的、潜意识的思想。忘记那些想法，比如“我好肥，我吃口或者我好矮”。但是，如果你不克服这些思想，你将会以骄傲自满或自高自大的悲剧结束，你只有善待你自己。

    成为有兴趣的人，并且让别人对人感兴趣。你可能对电脑游戏没有兴趣，而是想听更多十字绣的提示；但是，如果你能激发别人世界中的一潜力，你可以找到新的和有兴趣的令人吃惊的事物。问问以下问题：这就是治疗因想知谈论什么而感到不安的最好方法，或者你可以事前准备好一些东西。同样地，成为一个好的倾听者。一次好的谈话，就是一次好的说和听的混合。

    第一次接触时间要短。吃午饭的时间要恰当。如果结束得好，那么它意味着你们两个都想接触的时间更长；否则，接下来要做的事情就是挥手再见。要记得，约会正在积累经验。约会是一种有礼貌的活动。

    做你自己。大多数人都偿试成为其他人，经常是一个精明的人、更可爱的人、对他们的看法更有强迫性的人。不要透露你最不想告诉别人的秘密，或将你最害怕的事情列出来。做你自己就是是你自己。