Many women go into a relationship with all the intentions of keeping things going great day after day. But somewhere along the way, it all starts to fall apart then we end up losing that person and wondering where we went wrong.

The key to keeping men is to make them want you. You need to give them a reason to want you more than life itself.

Not sure how to do it? Here are some tips:

Be Strong and Independent

Most men love strong and independent women, even though they won't say so. While they want a woman who will love them and be there for them when they need it, they also don't want someone who is needy and will always be whining to them.

Enjoy life

Most men love a woman who can enjoy life no matter what's happening and will want to be with that type of positive spirit.

Let Him Be A Man

Many women think they have to take control of relationships and all relationship situations to make it go well. For many men, this is counter to who they are. Give him a chance to be the gentleman, pick the place you're going, pick up the tab, open bottles or do harder things for you and make sure to appreciate that he was able to help you.

Support Him

We all have tough times in life, it even happens to those strong men we know. Make sure you are able to be there when he needs you.

Don't Be Clingy

Many women think the way to keep a man is to fall down at his feet and give him anything he wants. Most men will enjoy that for a while, but they will tire of it eventually, think less of you for it and end up dumping you when something more interesting comes along. At the same time you will probably end up hating yourself.

Don't Get Lazy

Keep yourself looking good. When he sees other men looking at you he will be more intent on keeping you for himself.

 很多女人在开始一段感情时，都全心全意地想维护好这段感情，直到天长地久。可是随着感情的继续，不知从什么时候起，关系开始出现分裂，最终我们失去了那个人。我们疑惑自己到底做错了什么。

守住男人的关键是要让他需要你。你得给他一个爱你爱得胜过其身家性命的理由。

还是不知道怎么做？这里有一些窍门：

坚强和独立

大多数男人喜欢坚强和独立的女人，尽管他们不这样说。虽然他们想要一个爱他们的女人、一个当他们需要时能来陪他们的女人，但他们不需要一脸苦瓜相、整天发牢骚的怨妇。

享受生活

大多数男人喜欢无论发生什么都能去享受生活的女人，他们想与那种积极的生活态度相厮守。

让他做个男人

许多女人以为她们必须要控制一切以使这段感情按正常轨道发展。可对很多男人来说，这么做正有悖于他们的本性。给他一次做个男人的机会吧：让他为你们挑选要去的地方、让他去付账、让他去开酒瓶或让他去为你做些费力的事情。要保证你真的很欣赏他能为你效劳。

支持他

人有旦夕祸福，再坚强的人也有艰难的时候。要确保当他需要你的时候你能伴随其左右。

别粘在一起

不少女人以为守住男人的办法就是卑躬屈膝、满足他的一切要求。大多数男人在一段时间内的确喜欢那样，但他们最终会对此感到厌倦，便开始冷淡你。当更有趣的东西出现时，他们会以抛弃你告终。与此同时，你可能将以恨你自己收场。

别犯懒

保持良好的状态。当他看到别的男人注视你时，就会更想要把你留在身边。