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    Please try to understand my point of view.

    请理解我的观点。

    Wait, can I take that back?

    等一下，我能收回我说的话吗？

    You don't have to solve this - it helps me just to talk to you.

    我不用帮我解决这个问题。和你聊一下就对我有帮助。

    This is important to me. Please listen.

    这对我很重要。请仔细听。

    I overreacted.

    我反应过激了。

    I see you're in a tough position.

    我知道你的处境艰难。

    I can see my part in this.

    这个问题，我有错。

    I hadn't thought of it that way before.

    我以前没有这样想。

    I could be wrong.

    我可能是错的。

    Let's agree to disagree on that.

    让我们接受我们的不同观点。

    This isn't just your problem; it's our problem.

    这不只是你的问题。这是我们的问题。

    I'm feeling unappreciated.

    我感觉没有收到重视。

    We're getting off the subject.

    I know I need to listen more.

    我知道，我应该多倾听。

    You've convinced me.

    Let's take a break for a few minutes.

    让我们停一会。

    [If you can remember to do this, it's extremely effective-especially if you're having a big fight. After a break, it's almost impossible to go back to yelling.]

    Please keep talking to me.

    I realize it's not your fault.

    我意识到这不是你的错。

    That came out all wrong.

    我表达错了。

    I see how I contributed to the problem.

    我明白我引起了这个问题。

    What are we really fighting about?

    How can I make things better?

    我怎样才能把事情变得更好呢？

    We can solve this if we work together.

    如果我们携手合作，我们就可以解决这个问题。

    I'm sorry.

    对不起。

    I love you.

    我爱你。

    最后两句是最简单、最有力量的！