. Have a Healthy Self-Esteem

    What i mean by a healthy self-esteem is to have a good image of yourself, I'm not talking about a high self-esteem were you see yourself above everyone else but a healthy one. Don't feel less than anybody else, and don't let anyone walk over you. Because this world is not a vertical world, but a horizontal one.

    2. Love your Neighbor

    What good do you do starting fights, looking down at people, or simply having enemies? This might sound like a cliche but the bible couldn't be more right than that, that's almost the key for life. I know we humans and even if we don't want to, we somehow create problems with each other. And sometimes for the most stupid of reasons, but here I am to tell you that we also have the power to avoid those stupid problems we create. So love your neighbor, in a brotherly way, before you insult and do something bad to someone, ask yourself; "would i do this to my brother?"

    3. Live a Real life

    The biggest mistake we can make as human beings is to put limits on our life's, don't get me wrong, it's good to have limits but it's limits that save you from problems. Now I'm talking about the bad limits we put ourselves, those limits that hold us back from all we can be. Those limits we create simply by saying "I'll never loose weight, I'm too fat already." or "I'll never get that job, I'm not qualified enough for it." Those are the limits that ruin our lives, those are those false limits that society puts in front of us to keep us weak and unsuccessful. Those are the limits that weak men and women have created to live easily through this life that they have been given. So don't limit yourself, impossible is not a fact but only an opinion.

    4. Choose were to put your ladder

    Life is full of disappointments, sometimes we depend too much on someone or something, so my tip to you, is choose wisely were to put your ladder. In todays world we cannot afford to trust our financial wall to hold our ladder, because before you know it, that wall will crumble. If we try to stand our ladder in the relationship wall, guess what? That wall will fall sooner or later. Either the girl leaves you, or you two live a happy life until one dies. If you don't believe in God, then I'm not sure what to tell you, but if there is something that will never crumble is God so if i were you, i would give him my ladder.

    5. Give Yourself a Break

    If there anything in this article that you should take with you, well it should be this. Life is tough, we mess up… A lot sometimes i recommend you live as if you already died, like if there is nothing to loose. Because you know what? You could cross the street tomorrow and be killed by a truck. So live, love enjoy the little things, the beauty of life is in the details. Tomorrow morning enjoy your cup of coffee like if it were the last you'll ever have. Hug your husband or wife like if it were the last hug… life is too short for us to take it for granted. So stop whining about having a better life, and start living what you already have.

    1.拥有健康的自尊

    我所说的"健康的自尊"指的是应当正确认识自己，而不是盲目自负，认为自己凌驾于其他所有人之上。也不要看轻自己，不要被任何人随意摆布。记住，这个世界不是垂直的从属关系，而是水平的平等关系。

    2.爱自己的邻居

    斗殴、目中无人、无谓树敌，这些做法有什么好处呢？这么说似乎是陈词滥调，但是圣经中所讲的道理也无非这样，这就是生活的真谛。我了解我们人类，我们总是或多或少在彼此之间制造麻烦。有时候甚至是为了最愚蠢的理由，但是我要告诫你，我们自身有能力避免自己制造的问题。因此，像对待自己兄弟那样去爱你的邻居吧，在你准备侮辱他人，或采取其他恶行时，先扪心自问："我会这样对待自家兄弟的吗？"

    3.过真实的生活

    人类能够犯的最大错误就是为自己的生活加上五花八门的限制，当然啦，没有规矩不成方圆，而且限制可以使你避免犯错。我现在所要讲的是那些错误的限制，正是它们阻挠了我们潜能的发挥。打个比方，人们有时说"我再也无法减肥了，我已经胖得不可收拾。"或者"我不可能得到那份工作，我肯定不能胜任。"这些错误的限制毁掉了我们的生活，是社会环境强加于我们的，而最终将使我们软弱、无能。这些错误的限制也将削弱男人们和女人们的意志，无法顺利地拥有本已创造好的生活。因此，不要对自己妄加约束，"不可能"并不是一个事实，而仅仅是一种观点。

    4.选择为自己搭建的"梯子"找靠山

    "人生事，十常有八九不如意",有些时候我们太依赖于某人或某事，所以我的建议是，明智地为自己搭建的"梯子"找靠山。现今社会，我们不能过于相信自己的经济实力，因为在你弄清这一点之前，这座"靠山"就将倒塌了。如果我们依赖于社会人脉关系，猜猜会如何？这座"靠山"迟早也会倒掉。要么是你爱的女孩离你而去，要么就是你们两个相亲相爱一生，直至其中一人辞世。如果你不信奉上帝，我就无话可说了，但是终将有一物永远屹立，那就是上帝。所以，如果我是你，我将永远追随上帝。

    5.留给自己充足享受的时间

    如果这篇文章对你的生活有所裨益，我希望是这一条。生活是艰难的，我们无所适从……我更想说，生活吧，就像是你已经死去，热爱吧，就像这世上已空空如也。想知道原因吗？明天你可能穿过街道时被卡车撞死。所以生活时就去享受哪怕是最微小的事情，生活的魅力正是蕴含于细微之处。明天早晨享受你杯中的咖啡，就像那是你生命中最后一杯。深情拥抱你的丈夫或妻子，就像那是最后一次拥抱了……生命对我们来说是如此短暂而无力挥霍。所以，不要为了过更好的生活而抱怨，而应该开始过你已经拥有的生活。