On letting go and ending a relationship. How to say goodbye.

    Without love, trust and time, relationship becomes unhappy and might not understand each other. Letting go of a relationship doesn't always mean that it is the end because somehow, it signifies that a better chapter of your life is about to start.

    Don't expect to have a perfect relationship because there's no perfect in this world. Letting go of a relationship might happen unexpectedly and because of the issues came from: family matters; their religion; third party; being unhappy; lacking of time for each other. All of the problems have its solution but if you felt that love isn't right for you and affects you badly, therefore, letting go of a relationship is the best thing to do. Don't let anyone tell you how you are meant to feel or what you should do about these feelings after a relationship has ended. No one knows how you feel, it's simply because they are not you.

    If you felt that letting go of a relationship is the only way to survive your friendship, than listen to yourself. Lovers start being friends and must end up being friends. When you have decided of letting go of a relationship that both of you treasured along the way, it's natural to feel all the regrets and missed the person you used to be with and the things both of you used to do. Sometimes, somehow, you only love that person because it is the feeling you injected to your system, you may not notice that you slowly fell out of love in a silent way.

    Letting go of a relationship that never works is not your failure. To get out of one relationship bravely is a pleasure. Don't try to fight the failure, you cannot rewrite the reality. Do whatever it takes to give yourself resolution and closure, and do so without hoping that you are going to get back together. Realize that new promises and right words do not change the facts. Remember all the reasons the relationship failed and accept the fact that those differences will eventually reappear. Accept that the relationship didn't work in the end, and nothing will make it work any better in the future. Wounds are only healed by treating infection and being more careful in the future, not by kissing it and making it feel better for a moment. The longer the inevitable is postponed, the harder it is to heal. The decision of applying a temporary patch versus eliminating it is totally in your own hands.

    Let love dies, don't die with it. Everything may for happen for a reason. And every memory left its lesson in a way that you will always remember. Nothing lasts forever but memory stays as long as you are living. Though letting go of relationship is the saddest part of your life, you can't erase it permanently, what important is, you learn from it… you learned from your own mistakes. Don't let your one feet to be stacked in the past. Forgive then forget, step forward not backward, move on.

    要了结一段爱的关系，该如何说再见

    没有爱,信任和陪伴,两人的关系开始变得不愉快且双方无法相互体量。放弃一段关系并不注定要结束一段关系,因为从某种意义讲,这意味着人生更好的一个章节就要开始了。

    不要期待拥有完美的关系,因为这世上根本不会存在完美的关系。可能会突然间放弃一段关系且因为问题来自:家庭琐事,宗教信仰,第三者的介入,心情不佳,缺乏陪伴的时间。所有的问题都会有它的解决办法,但是如果你觉得这种爱不适合你且对你产生了不利的影响,那么放弃这段关系是最好的解决办法。当一段关系结束以后,不要让旁人告诉你,你内心的感受会是怎样,该做些什么来对付这些感受。因为没有人会知道你内心的感受,理由再简单不过了,你是你,别人是别人。

    如果你觉得放弃一段关系是保持两人友谊的唯一办法,就该听自已的。爱人关系是从朋友关系开始的,也要以朋友关系来结束。当你决定要放弃一段两人一路走来百般珍惜的关系,感到遗憾万分并无比怀念过去与你相伴左右的这个人和两人过去共同经历的事,这是很自然不过的事。有时,你会无原由地只爱那个人,因为这只是你向神经系统灌输的一种感受,你可能还没察觉到自己已经在无声无息中从爱中走出来了。

    放弃一段不再有爱的关系并不是你的错。勇敢地走出一段关系才是幸福。不要尝试与失败作战,你无法重写现实。做一些可以让你解决问题和消除窘况事情,不要心怀期许两人又会在一起。要知道新的承诺和甜言蜜语并不能改变事实。心中要记住为什么这段关系会破裂,并接受所有的分歧在两人复合之时又会重新浮现的这个事实。承认两人关系最终无法重修旧好,且未来也不会有令其更好的办法。交靠亲吻和一时半会的安抚,而不进行消炎及在后期更加小心地处理,伤口是不会痊愈的。注定的伤痛越迟发生,越难痊愈。一时半会的修修补补,还是一次性彻底地将它解决掉,完全取决于你自己。

    让爱逝去,但不要与之相随。任何事情都不会无缘由地发生。每一个记忆都会以你永远都不会忘却的方式给你留下一课。没有什么可以与世长存,然而记忆却会永生相伴。尽管放弃一段关系是人生这中最痛的一部分,你无法将它从记忆中抹去。但重要的是,你从中有所收获,你能痛定思痛。不要让自已深陷在过去的记忆中,不要后退,要向前迈步,一直往前走。