People relate in many ways and the different types of humans let each relationship to be unique. So nobody can give any formula of how to put a stop and shuffle cards again.
A relationship needs work and time in order to succeed and sometimes love is not enough for both people, so it requires drastic action taking, which is not a simple and quick decision if you have passed a reasonable time with the other person. Sharing memories, moments and anecdotes makes it a complicated situation to face.
All of the time it is expected to end in good terms but this, unfortunately, is not always possible. Cheating, disappointment and lack of respect are just three of the reasons why a couple may start a war when breaking up. It is essential to remind yourself of the best moments of the relationship when that decision is needed and do not ever forget that talking badly about the person who shared your life with translates in gossiping against yourself.
What is meant to last has no way of avoiding its destiny and a bad or aggressive relationship is not healthy at all, so the decision, though a rough one, is required at the right time. Spending more and more time together will not assure you the success of the relationship, and worse, it may contribute to end up fighting and building unnecessary confrontations.
For your own sake, if your relationship is over, end it in the best way you can and enjoy life, there is only one, and considerably short.
人类可以以多种方式往来,不同的人群将他们彼此间的关心划分的很清楚。因此,没人能对于怎样结束和再一次洗牌给出一个任何明确的关系式。
建立一段关系需要进行和时间,有时光有爱情对于两个人来说是不够的,因此它需要去采取特有的行为,这不是一件简单和盲目间下的决定。(如果之前你已经与那个人经历了一段适应的时间)享受过去,片刻和乐趣使得它的表面形成了极为复杂的形式。
从好的方面来说,都期望它能有个完美的结局,但是很不幸,它并非如你所愿。欺骗,失望和不尊重这仅仅就成为了夫妻之间爆发战役,最终走上终结的三要素。当你必须需下决定时,不要总是想着那个与你相伴人的不好,对于你他只是个爱挑拨是非的人而已,还是让自己回想你们之间那些美好时光,这很必要。
最终这就意味着我们无法逃避命运,一段糟糕的战争的关系是不利于你们相处的,因此决定(即使没那么明确)也会在适当的时机出现的。两人在一起时间的多少并不意味你俩关系就有多好,更糟糕的是,它会为战争做引线,建立不必要的对抗。
为自己着想,如果你们的关系即将结束,那就让它完美的结束,享受生活,这也是最最精辟的一句话。